christina bucher
We are influenced by those who came before us and influencing those who come
after. Everything in the universe is interconnected so are we. We inherit
cultures and experiences. This is known as collective unconscious or memory in
nature. Memory in nature organises itself in systems such as flock of birds,
religions, countries, football teams, and so on but the most important system
for human beings is the family. Family systems are responsible for how we live
and how we thrive through natural laws called 'The Orders of Love". The orders
of love rarely exist intact within the average family. They dictate who belongs
and how so disruption happens when a family member has been excluded by their
families. All exclusion creates disruption. They are known as entanglements.
'The idea of the memory being the brain is an assumption. Everything that
happens in our culture we inherit,' Rupert Sheldrake. What if a man’s drug
addiction were really a search for connection with his father? Suppose a
suicidal adolescent was unconsciously trying to follow the fate of an older
brother who wasn't born because the mother had a miscarriage? What if a woman’s
breast cancer were rooted in the unconscious feeling of guilt for having had an
abortion? Why do people who adopt children often end up divorcing or losing all
intimacy in their marriage? Why do marriages where a spouse who cheated then was
forgiven ends? What if a man's alcoholism is because of an unconscious loyalty
to his alcoholic father? Can a person’s chronic low back pain actually
represents the need to show respect to their mother or father? What if the guilt
a person feels really belongs to a family member who's been a slave owner or a
Nazi soldier? LOOK AT SOME MAJOR SIGNS A STORY NEEDS HEALING: No matter your
efforts, success doesn't come to you. Money is a struggle; you either never make
enough or you spend more than what you have. Do you always end up with the same
type of partner? There's this feeling something is missing in your life but you
just don't know what! You feel lost, unhappy but don't know why! Drug use,
alcoholism... HAVE AN OVERALL LOOK INTO THE FACTS THAT GET US ENTANGLED IN LIFE
STRUGGLES Exclusions & Self-exclusions, Murder, Suicide, Slavery, Family Secret,
Prolonged hospitalisations, Abortion, Miscarriage, Early death of a parent,
Early death of a child Stillborn, War, Abandonment, Adoption, Divorce...
Symptoms you have inherited some kind of family trauma may show through lack of
success and difficulties in earning or keeping money. But also illnesses, mental
distress and a string of failed relationships. Developed by Bert Hellinger, this
is the quickest and most efficient therapy at present. The resolution of an
entanglement gives a sense of peace and autonomy to run your life in a conscious
way.
