zoe patey - fulfilment coach & mindset mentor
From feeling less stuck to accepting your past has made you the beautiful person
you are, it’s all about doing the things you think you can’t – with me at your
side we can achieve your dream, your vision and become the person you always
wanted to be.I know where you are, I have been there – the voice in your head
saying you are not good enough, or “I want more, something isn’t right, but
where do I start?” ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE! It’s all down to
mind-set and how you want to show up in the world; with the right attitude,
motivation and willpower to shake off the past, stop playing the victim, embrace
the present and have clear intensions and clarity for how you want your future
to be – then you can also ACHIEVE ANYTHING AND BECOME THE PERSON YOU HAVE ALWAYS
WANTED TO BE. Just like I did… Growing up I always had the sense of not fitting
in; I felt different from the rest of my family, and although I didn’t know it
then, being an empath from a young age, I found my family dynamics confusing
with no affection or expression of emotions or love… sometimes I just wanted the
biggest hug or to be told I was loved, but it was never forthcoming and I grew
up struggling to understand why. At 14, my parents divorced and I was sent to
live with my dad, who I had no real connection with and to add to my anxiety,
his new partner took a serious dislike to me, finding her solace in bullying me
at every opportunity. These early experiences left me with an overwhelming sense
of abandonment and sadness leading me to searching for love and connection in
all the wrong places; looking outside of myself for some kind of sign that I was
good enough. Of course that led me into further dysfunctional relationships and
by the time I was 43 and facing my second divorce, looking to a future of being
a single mum, I was harbouring hatred and discontentment inside of myself that
had been festering for a long time and projecting this onto those around me,
feeling destined to rinse and repeat this cycle for the rest of my life. Looking
at my daughter, I knew that I didn’t want to continue this way and I certainly
didn’t want to pass these patterns onto her, something had to change and it was
down to me to change it.
